Codes of Behaviour
Thai's are flexible in nature
and understand very well, that foreigners do not know their code of behaviour.
Mostly they are too polite to complain about ignorance.
Their religion should be respected as well.
Temples, Buddha, statues, and monks (it is not allowed for a woman to touch
a monk, for example) are to be revered.
Buddhist and Chinese shrines are open to
foreigners but you should dress appropriately when visiting. Shorts and sleeveless
shirts are discouraged. A non-Muslim can enter a mosque during prayer time.
Hilltop houses have special spirit houses,
which are closed to outsiders; entering them will violate their sanctity.
Thai's are amenable to being photographed
but, if in doubt, ask first. Monks can be photographed and Buddhist ceremonies
too.
Thais regard the feet of lower stature so do not point them at others or step
over those seated or lying. Remove your shoes before entering a Thai temple
or house.
Likewise, the head is of high stature and
is not supposed to be touched or slapped.
Tipping and bargaining
Although tipping is not expected or required,
it is a nice gesture to leave a small amount, when you receive good service,
particularly as salaries are low.
Most restaurants, bars, supermarkets, department
stores, pharmacies, public transport (except taxis and tuk-tuks), and larger
hotels do not offer discounts. On the other hand, nearly any independent small
businesses, from jewellery stores to street vendors, are open to bargaining,
except Dive South East Asia!
If you decide to bargain, understand that
you should, above all, do it in a light-hearted non-confrontational manner,
preferably with a big smile. When bargaining, Thais will normally drop their
original asking price to a lower price very quickly but will then become irritable
after more than a few minutes of further haggling! If you really feel that
you are not getting value-for-money, then better to show that you are willing
to walk away and maybe return later!
As in other countries, knowing the rudiments
of negotiation ("How much?", "Too expensive", "Can you come down?" and numbers)
in the Thai language will certainly afford you a better price.
Clothing
Thailand is a country in the tropical region,
so light, loose cotton clothing is most recommended. When exploring the night-life,
tight dresses, short shorts, and miniskirts are no problem. On the other hand,
naked sunbathing or topless appearance in public places is considered offensive,
more especially when you are outside of the tourist resort areas.
Criminality
Thailand is one of the friendliest and safest
travel destinations in the world.
Your personal safety is well taken care
of in Pattaya and the tourist police demonstrate a polite and competent attitude
all round.
By travelling with confidence, being aware
and showing the proper caution, you will surely enjoy your stay.
Travellers should be aware, as in the rest
of the world, pickpockets and con artists are more likely to be found in crowded
areas such as tourist spots, buses, trains and train stations, festivals,
and marine harbours so keep a watchful eye on your valuables in these places.
Petty pilfering from hotel rooms is not
unknown, though it is fairly unusual and staff are likely to be unexpectedly
honest.
Officials
If you are involved in an incident then
respect for the police is a must. Insults, loud or aggressive speech, or,
indeed any expression of anger, will invoke much embarrassment and even less
cooperation, so you must avoid this at all times, guilty or not.
Thai police officers have much greater powers
of action than their European counterparts and will not accept disrespectful
behaviour. Common offences such as not wearing a helmet will get you a 2000
B fine. Parking on the wrong side of the road will get your bike or car chained
up and another fine. The trick is to know which side of the road to park on.
Just look to see where everyone else has parked and park on that side of the
road. If you feel that you're been being treated unfairly then stand your
ground, remain cool at all times, make a show of recording the officer's registration
number, and insist on seeing a superior officer.